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I am wishing everyone who is reading this at whatever time it may be a Wonderful and Happy Valentine’s Day.  Remember, it doesn’t really matter whether you are in a relationship or single, in love or not, just enjoy it and make the most of it.

Keep in mind that you do not have to be in a relationship to be in love or just love. So, for all my single people depressing over this day, it’s still your day!

What do men want?

So, I received this email asking me this question, “What do men want?”

Quite frankly, I have no clue. Apparently, as difficult to understand as men seem to believe women are, it seems that women feel the same way about men. Personally, I don’t think there is any way to know what a person wants unless the person tells you very explicitly what it is he or she wants.

I agree sometimes people can be quite confusing with their feelings and that is somewhat normal. Some guys will probably make you feel like they care today and the next day, they act a little different and that can be confusing. However, I believe that is normal and if you find yourself in this situation, you can always ask the guy what he really wants. Us, women can be a little indecisive sometimes too and we often confuse guys the same way. Sometimes, it may be simply because we want to be sure and certain and we have not found that certainty just yet, sometimes we can also be confused with ourselves or it may just as well be our insecurities at times.

Let’s not confuse ourselves even more and get too worked up about what men want. Instead, let’s ask them and if we can’t do that, let’s just let things be and just be happy as it is. Sometimes, we, women, tend to over-think things and we worry more than we should.

So, to answer this question, men want the same things we want which is a better and happy life. We are all under tremendous pressure and are all looking for the very best and sometimes, it may take us a while to figure out what is best and when it’s best. Ask your man what he wants if you really need to know but always remember that men hate being pressured (well, that’s all humans) and they can take an awful longer time to finally decide on certain things, relationship included. So, be careful, smart and mindful.

Black History Month

So, February is Black History Month. No wonder it’s the shortest month of the year. This should be a celebration for everyone regardless of race and skin color. We should take the tome to look back into the great things people did to get us where we are now and hopefully some of us can follow on some of their footsteps or even lead in an even more positive way.

As important as knowing where you come from is, you also need to find different ways to contribute in the present to make this world a better and more peaceful place to live.

“Let us not just recognize and appreciate the movement but be part of it, as long as it is a great and positive movement!”

Happy Black History Month People!


Hello folks,

I know I’m extremely late but I still want a chance to wish everyone a very Happy New Year full of success, health and prosperity. Remember, resolutions should be made every day and most importantly, they should be executed. Every day is a new beginning as it is a blessing. Never forget to thank and praise God for every breathing second as we do not deserve any of his blessings. Some people did not even get a chance to wish their loved one Happy New Year. That should be our number one resolution and motivation. Let us make the best of this new year and keep working as hard as we can!

On a different note, I have questions to answer and new discussions coming up muy pronto (I told you I was learning Spanish, hopefully I’ll be able to write a whole post in Spanish soon.)

Have a blissful day and enjoy!

Does He Like You?

Someone asked: “How do you know if and when a guy likes you?”
To be honest, I have no clue. I heard there are signs/hints which you could catch to find out whether anyone (guy or girl) likes you. Unfortunately, I am unable to catch any of these so called signs or hints.
Personally, a guy does not like you until he tells you so. If he does, he will. Don’t stress yourself trying to read signs. Sometimes, these signs may have different meanings, but since you are focusing on them so much as to find out someone’s true feelings for you, you can misread them. A person will do/say things only because he/she is polite and have respect for others.
I am not dismissing the fact that some signs may actually show how someone feels about you. However, the only way to be sure is if and when they tell you. You can take your chances, but to answer this question again, you would know if a guy likes you when he tells you. What he likes you for or in other words, what he wants from you is a whole different story.

First Date Kiss

Okay, this is one of my favorite subjects. I have been asked to answer this question, “is it okay to kiss on a first date?

I don’t know where to begin with this. Well, I’ll go with it depends. I think if you really care about someone, it shouldn’t matter. It’s all about chemistry, if it’s right and strong, it will happen naturally. On the other hand, if you try to force, then it’s wrong.

As women, we think too much about certain things. I don’t think kissing a guy on a first date should make him like/love you less than he probably did before. If that’s the case, then I’m afraid there was no genuine like/love in the first place. I can see why a guy may be a bit skeptical if you sleep with him on a first date, but that’s another topic. However, I don’t think it’s a bad thing if it happens naturally. We must not overthink because we can’t control how we feel at a moment. If you have to think about it, then maybe you shouldn’t do it. Otherwise, just live life and let God works his miracles.