Stop complaining, find your place!

Hello there folks,

If there is one thing I hate is people complaining, but nothing is worst than people complaining about their job at work. I mean seriously, you are still there obviously. Stop complaining about things you hate, instead focus on what makes your job worth it. What most of us fail to understand is that unless it is your own company, you will always have things you do not agree with or love. There will always be things that do not necessarily work for you, but guess what? You either deal with it or you get out. You still being there means there are still some goods, so stop complaining and start learning to appreciate a bit. Understand that whatever works for you does not necessarily work for everybody, so, unless you are really being treated poorly, stop it. I am sure you have a choice, if it does not work for you, you can always find what works, but the complaining and trying to bring everyone down must stop. There is absolutely nothing wrong with not loving your job anymore or not agreeing with some policies, but the truth is, you’ll never agree all the way with any company’s policies, there will always be that one thing that gets to you. It is up to you to decide if you can deal with it or not.

Complaining left and right does not help anyone, definitely does not change your situation, so stop complaining and find your place. That place you can deal with, that place you enjoy going to everyday and do not need to complain about. So, just stop complaining and move on!

Meeting the kids!!

I must say that I am very old-fashioned and came come off a bit harsh, but don’t bring anyone to meet your kids just because. Don’t bring people to your home just because in the first place, let alone play with your kids.

I get it, you are dating this guy or this lady and you feel like he or she should meet your kids, but don’t unless you are both sure this is what you want and certainly before you are sure who this person is. Don’t judge me for watching too many movies and reading too many stories, but you don’t know the person well enough after a few weeks. It’s not that serious, take your time. Don’t put your family, your home or your life in danger just because. It’s all fun and game until that time. Not to be negative, but I’d rather be safe than sorry.

So, to answer the question,the best time to bring a guy to meet your kids is when you are both sure and ready. You can never trust anyone but you’ll know what someone’s intention may be after a little while (not just a few weeks). At the end of the day though, only you can decide when the best time is, but be mindful of your kids, your home and yourself as you don’t know ho you’re bringing home and there have been horror stories, real life stories, so just be careful!