I went to church and part of the message was about women who do not know their worth. I thought, I should definitely write about this because so many women out there aren’t fully aware of how worthy they truly are.
So many young women struggle with self-esteem issues and believe me I know how that can make you feel. But, know that you are worth so much more than you will ever really understand. God created you to be so important and you should know that. You are made to be beautiful, so just be that.
One important thing the lady said was that some of us, women do not know how to appreciate and take compliments. A compliment is meant to be just that. Don’t fall in love with someone just because he says “you’re beautiful”. You should have already known that, so that is no surprise to you. You must say thanks because it is a nice gesture and thank him for noticing. Now, some people will say that you are conceited but don’t you have a good reason to be? Don’t fall in love or sleep with guys too quickly. I understand when you are dealing with self-esteem issues, you need attention and when you get the least bit of it, you tend to go crazy. Stop that and you have no reason to be having those self-esteem issues in the first place. God knows how beautiful you are whether you are thin, extra thin, average, big-boned, big or huge. It really doesn’t matter. You need to know that you are made to be beautiful so, always remember that and believe that you are a beautiful and very important creature. Those people who are destroying your self-esteem know it way too well, that’s why they want you to destroy yourself.
Believe in yourself and one thing I hate when some women do is that they go chasing men, married or single. What is wrong with you? If a man is married or in any type of relationship with any other woman, he is unavailable. Get that in your head, he is unavailable. Don’t listen to the beautiful, sweet nothings this man will be telling you , he is not for you and you should know better. Also, that is a sign of disrespect towards both of you as women. If he is in a relationship, he should not have come to you in the first place and you should not allow him under any circumstances. If you like a man and he is not willing to make an effort to show you his interest, don’t chase him. It is not your job. As women, when we like a guy, he will know it without us even saying anything because we have that gift. So, the thing is if the guy is not responding well to your natural signals, he is either slow or just not interested because if he was, he would pick them up very quickly. Whatever you do, never chase a guy, it is not your place. You can do your part but he has to be willing to do his. Stop the chasing, you are worth so much more!
Don’t go sleeping with guys just because, don’t do it. Unlike most guys, women have the capability to get emotionally attached and as I always say, once I am attached, I know, I am just attached. So try to avoid putting yourself in extra vulnerable situations where you are subject to serious disappointments. Just because a guy compliments you or treat you nice, you do not have to sleep with him. He should compliment and treat you nice. You very much deserve it, it’s not a favor. People will say that I am very conceited, but, in reality, I have all the rights to be. Also, it is not about being conceited, it is more about knowing yourself. I know who I am and I won’t allow anyone to tell me otherwise. Learn to know yourself, love and respect yourself. I always tell my friends, no one will ever love me more than I love myself.
Ladies, you are so beautiful and worthy. It hurts to see so many of you are unaware of that and fall for anything that is out there. Stop putting yourself in situations you have no business in and don’t let people play with your mind into thinking you are only a sex object and you have to do this to be beautiful or acceptable. Those same people are making money off of you because you let them play with your mind. It’s about that time, you stop and take a look at yourself. Think, if it was not for us, women, those people could not have been there in the first place. They don’t know how you got there and don’t let them take you out. Love yourself as much as you can and you’ll understand why God loves you so much. You are worth so much and if only you knew that, you would have people kneeling at your feet and running after you because you are that powerful and beautiful. So, don’t let people tell you otherwise.